Week in Review
The July 4th holiday is over and this is when people start to become refocused on healthy eating and serious movement. Speaking of serious movement, this past week consisted of 3 straight days of boot camp. Those 3 days may seem like a blur, but let me recap for you going backwards. . . on Thursday, we were tired of tires: tire flipping, tire jumping, and tire planks, all of which was called “stupid”, which means that everyone loved it! Yes, for those of you who have not noticed, but when people start shouting this is “stupid”, it’s really bad in a really good way. The 5:45 am group focused a lot on tabata’s in the parking lot and off the curb. It was nice to see Amy back in the fold, who dragged along Lorna. Carma did come at her usual time and Lynn rolled out of bed (and we won’t say anymore, because Lynn has been taking a week long course and is a little foggy right now.) We continued our trail runs on Tues and Thurs with Dan leading the way. Don’t worry, he knows the way now, so he doesn’t get lost anymore. Tuesday was a long day for me since I drove 9 hours from Buffalo, returned home at 6pm and made it to class just in time. However, the best cure for long car rides is exercise…I felt much better after class and you know what? The next morning for the 5:45 am class, I wasn’t tired one bit.
I also want to welcome new boot campers, Kim, Lee, Katie and AnneMarie. You girls jumped right in and maintained a smile while working hard. That’s what it’s about. . . fun work, hard play.
Starting this week, our Thursday class will become larger because the football team will join us as a part of their conditioning program. Having all age groups training and supporting each other is what community fitness is about. You all know how important it is to lead by example. Speaking of leading by example, Annemarie is going to talk to the Boy Scouts to see if they can earn their fitness badge through boot camp. Betty brings her son, Donna brings both of her sons and Paula brings her daughter. In the past, Dan used his son as a weight running the hills, but I think he’s a little too big now. We all know the importance of teaching our youth about healthy eating, movement and goal setting. You’re certainly doing your part!
Boot Cancer Mini Camps
East Coast, West Coast Mini Camps coming up…
Sat., 7/16 @Champlain Valley CrossFit in Williston http://www.champlainvalleycrossfit.com/
Sun., 7/17 @Ben’s Boot Camp in Lyndonville http://vermontbootcamps.com/
Part of the Boot Cancer Challenge series for the American Cancer Society. http://bootcancer.org/MiniCamps.aspx
Mark October 2 on your calendar. That’s the Main Event! Fundraising goal is $10,000.00. We’re 20% of the way there!!!
How to Avoid Self-Sabotage
Would you say that you’re a great goal setter who plans the work and works the plan to reach the end? Are you a goal setter who plans the work, but loses focus and jumps off the path? Are you a goal setter who thinks a lot about what needs to be done, but doesn’t get to planning the work? As humans, we’ve experienced all of these situations. However, how can you become more successful at setting and achieving goals? One area to focus on is avoiding Self-Sabotage, which takes you in a completely different direction, a direction you wanted to avoid in the first place. The following excerpt is from a blog that outlines clear advice on how to avoid self-sabotage. . .
“Unfortunately, we all sabotage our dreams constantly. We set forth these wonderful desires, but then we turn around and allow our mind to become our enemy. Creating what you want in life is a mind game. Unless your mind is on your side, action is a waste of time! Until you believe and support yourself with your thoughts, your actions will never be successful.
- Doubt: By doubting whether or not what you want will happen, you are diluting your power. Doubt is an energy that is opposite to belief and without belief you your goal means nothing. You get what you expect and unless you expect success there is a high chance you will not get it.
- Negative and Disempowering Self Talk: Eg: I can’t do it… It is too hard… I will never succeed etc.. These types of phrases make you feel crap and tear you down. You will not feel at all inspired to take action toward your goal with this type of stuff in your head.
- Lack of Self-Belief: Not only do you need to believe in your goal, but you must believe in your self. Not believing in your own abilities, talents and passions will hold you back from your dreams.You have to know that you are capable of doing anything you want and you have to be willing to back your self 100%.
- Poor Focus: In life, you get what you focus on. If you’re not focusing on where you want to go, you are never going to get there. You also must do your best to focus in a positive way. If all you do is focus on the negatives, what is not working and what you do not have you will have no chance of moving forward. It is extremely important to have a laser-like focus towards your goal and to not let anything else stray you from where you are going.
- Living Unconsciously: You need to make your decisions consciously and clearly. If you simply react unconsciously or just act out old habits you are likely to self sabotage without even realising you are doing it. And if you continue to live life on autopilot just going with the flow, it is likely that you will just continue to create the same thing over and over again.
- Comparison to Others: You are unique and your dreams and goals are your own. Hold them close to your heart and cherish them. Do not worry about other people are doing or where they are in their life. This is a waste of energy and it pulls your mind off course from your own dreams
- Procrastination: It is very easy to do what is easy. But it is hard to do what is hard. If you are not willing to challenge yourself and get uncomfortable, then you will continue to procrastinate and put off the hard things. Unless you are willing to step up and do the challenging tasks, you will never make the progress that you really want too.
1. Pin Point the Problem: You have to start by identifying what your self-sabotaging behaviours are. In what ways do you think negatively about your dreams? Listen to your self talk – what do you say to yourself? Try writing down a big goal of something you really want to achieve and then underneath list all the negative feelings or thoughts that arise in you. Do you feel fear? Are there certain phrases or beliefs that pop in to your head about whether or not you can do it? Get really clear on how it is that you are stopping yourself
2. Commit to Change: If you want to achieve your goals, you are going to have to do the work to get there. A lot of this may be inner work. You may have to change they way you are thinking and doing things. You may have to create new habits and behaviours. You may have to dedicate time to working through your self sabotaging patterns so you can heal them. You may need to change negative thoughts in to positives and to start to think in ways that you are not used to. Simply start by being willing. Be willing to change who you are and how you have been living. Be willing to be scared and to not know what you are doing. Just be curious about yourself and be open to learning more about who you really are.
3. Fix your Focus: You have to put your focus in the right place. Focus on your strengths and all the reasons why you can do what you want. Focus on what is already great in your life. You must keep a positive mind to support your new dreams. Think back through your past for memories of times that you have succeeded and have achieved what you want. Keep your mind on the end goal and do not become too distracted by your sabotaging patterns. Simply recognise them, work to heal them and then re-focus on your your desired outcome.
4. Embrace Opportunities: The biggest way we sabotage ourselves is by missing opportunities to move towards our goal because we are scared. Do not back away from opportunities. As soon as you set your goal, you will start having openings to take action. You must make sure you do not then turn around and run! We may feel unworthy or incapable of what we are being given and we may be too scared to do what it takes to achieve the goal. You must catch yourself when this happens and be willing to act even when it is totally out of your comfort zone.
5. Watch your words: Your words create your world. Be aware of your self talk and what goes on in your head. When you are faced with a challenge is your self talk positive and empowering or negative and debilitating? Your words put you in a self-hypnotic trance and tell you what you can or cannot do. Catch yourself when you recognise that you are thinking something disempowering and turn yourself around. Love yourself enough to say beautiful and supportive statements to your self. Be your own cheerleader. Coach yourself through the tough times. Tell yourself you can do it enough times, and pretty soon you will star to believe it.
6. Commit to your goal: If you are not 100% committed you will easily be swayed and deterred by your self sabotaging patterns. However when you are completely committed you will not let anything stop you. Decide on a course of action and then consciously choose the thoughts you need to think to support you to get there. Commit to the outcome and be willing to do whatever it takes. You must be willing to grow and change and feel uncomfortable to get there. Decide on your outcome and then stick to it and allow nothing to stand in your way.”